When it comes to the speeches on your big day, sometimes you need to consider the bride and groom speeches together.
For me and my wife, we didn’t want to spoil the surprise by writing out speeches together. But we did think that it might be a good idea to have a chat and figure out the direction we wanted our wedding speeches to go in.
Deciding on Who Says What
When it comes to any kind of speech, whether the grooms wedding speeches or the father of groom wedding speech, it can help to get your stories straight and make sure that every single speech isn’t repeating the other. This is why discussing bride and groom wedding speech ideas with your other half is a good idea.
Not all bride and grooms will do separate speeches. Perhaps only one of you is doing a speech, or maybe you even want to address it together! If you still haven’t decided then I recommend you have a good discussion before moving onto the next steps.
Coming Up With the Perfect Speeches
Once you’ve decided it’s a good idea to talk to your future wife and ask whether she’s preparing a speech herself. Chances are that you will both have a few of the same ideas, such as telling stories of how you met and what you’ve done together.
One option is to decide to cover different topics. Another option is to both cover the story of how you got together – but from different points of view. This can make for exciting, funny, yet still poignant grooms wedding speeches that your guests will love!
Finding bride and groom wedding speech ideas together isn’t always done, but I think sharing some ideas – while still keeping the speeches private until the big day – can be really inspiration. Better still, check out some speech examples to really help your speech be what you want it to be!
